Hay tombstone in Rock Creek Cemetery, Washington D.C.


Hay tombstone in Rock Creek Cemetery - picture taken 2000
1931 newspaper article
Rock Creek Cemetery dates back to colonial days, and for a long time was the largest cemetery in America.

Three Hay generations are buried in Rock Creek Cemetery: Oliver Perry Hay (1846-1930) and his wife Mary Emily Howsmon Hay (1848-1931); their son Robert Howsmon Hay (1882-1952) and his wife Alma Elizabeth Bischoff Hay (1885-1956); and Oliver and Mary Hay's daughter Frances Steele Hay (1876-1962). These five are buried under the one tombstone pictured above. The tombstone reads:

Oliver Perry Hay
May 22, 1846-Nov 2, 1930
Mary Emily Hay
April 20, 1849-Jan 28, 1931
Robert H. Hay
Nov 16, 1882-May 9, 1952
Alma E. Hay
Mar 23, 1885*-May 6, 1956
Frances S. Hay
Jan 21, 1876-May 21, 1962

Although Alma's death certificate lists 1884 as her birth year, her actual birth year is 1885, as engraved. No birth record was found (searched 1883-1886), but her 1889 Concordia christening records lists her birth year as 1885, her 1900 census lists her birth as March 1885, her marriage license in Dec 1909 said she was 24, and her June 1912 son's birth record said she was 27 -- all confirming a 1885 birth year.

In a neighboring plot are Robert and Alma's son: Donald Albert Hay (1912-1978) and his wife Eleanor Alma Dankenbring Hay (1913-1974)